One day when I'm big...

Do you remember those days way back when, in high school, when the lines were clearly drawn and people stuck to their groups. You had the Jocks - the really hot guys who may or may not have been the sharpest pencils in the box. There were a few girls who formed part of this group as well - but i think we all questioned their sexuality, and the same went for the guys who were part of the drama club.
Then there were the nerds, social outcasts and library bound -they're probably millionaires today. Your boss is proabably a former high school nerd.
Its funny how some things change and some never do. Girls for one thing - no matter how old we get, the girl in you never dies. The insecure, bitchy, caustic nature of women never dies. So this may strike you as rather odd - me writing against my sex. But it has to be said- and then maybe we can all deal with it and move on.
When it comes to friendship i think men are paces ahead of women. I'm not sure if it comes from cavemen having to rely on each other - hunting in packs and all that. Women on the other hand, theres back biting and gossip and its just SO ugly and thats one thing a man will never understand - cos their just not made like that. So no mater how growed up we are, theres nothing like a bitchy cow to bring out the lil fighter in you - no matter how past it you think you may be.
So my advice to women would be - firstly let him enjoy his boys night, you won't get it cos we dont have that. And secondly - if you're lucky enough to find that one special woman who gets you, who feels pain when you're hurting, who will no doubt be there when the shit hits the fan - appreciate her. I know i do.